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My blog is meant to help people learn and grow in their relationships and in themselves. You can read articles below on how to empower yourself whether you are single, partnered or dating.

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Are My Dating Standards and Requirements “Too High?” – Why Developing High Dating Standards is Not Always a Good Thing

You’ve been single for a while now. Maybe years. You’ve dated, gone on apps, met people through friends. Some seemed promising at first. But something always felt off: They seemed great, but you just weren’t feeling it. You tell yourself you’re not settling. You know your worth. You refuse to compromise on what you deserve. […]

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Why Corporate Promotions Feel Harder Than They Should — And What Therapy Can Do About It

You got the promotion. You now have more responsibility, higher salary, better title. On paper, it’s exactly what you worked for. So why does it feel overwhelming instead of exciting? Corporate transitions — moving into management, taking on director-level responsibilities, becoming a VP or executive — bring stress that most people don’t talk about. The

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What Are Relationship Transitions And How Might They Apply to Therapy?

When people talk about therapy for “transitions” and “transitions counseling” they are often referring to life transitions: Moving to a new city, changing careers, losing a loved one, becoming a parent — these are life transitions. Big external changes that force you to adapt, and are known to cause stress, anxiety, and even depression. But

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Why ‘Communication’ Doesn’t Always Fix a Codependent Relationship

One of the most common pieces of relationship advice out there is to “just communicate better.” Communicate your needs. Communicate your feelings. Communicate when something bothers you. The idea is that if both people would just talk openly and honestly, the relationship would improve. This advice isn’t wrong. Communication is important. But if you’re in

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Why Winter Might Be Testing Your Relationship (And It’s Not Just Cabin Fever)

There’s a phrase that gets thrown around every year when the days get short and the temperature drops: “cabin fever.” It’s the catch-all explanation for why people get irritable, restless, or difficult to live with during winter months. But if you’ve noticed that your relationship feels heavier, more strained, or somehow off as soon as

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Maybe You’re Not Meant to Be Together – That’s Okay

As an individual relationship therapist, I work with individuals – rather than couples – to help address relationship-related challenges. For those that are single or dating, this may mean breaking relationship habits, or helping people address past traumas. For those in relationships, however, typically the goal is to save or heal a struggling relationship. While

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